Disney gives them the fantasy where they can easily achieve a standard of perfection with low risk. This is a reply to all. I had many extremely hurtful things said to me, along with an intervention hosted by my married-in-the-temple-and-divorced grandmother. These past few weeks have made me very depressed.
It is tempting for Mormon girls to become lazy because they have such a high standard compared to typical girls. One of the most well known church prophets stated that he would rather see his own child dead in their coffin than married outside the temple. You need to repent and change. Did he get kicked out of the church for marrying you. The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. All I can do is have Faith in Him. To me, life is all about growthвso ask yourselfвwill I grow more staying single and focusing my life on the church, or will I grow more branching out, looking at life from different perspectives, and allowing myself to see options I have not yet considered. Talk about issues with Jehovah's Witnesses etc. Having said this, there are several aspects of this particular religion that you need to be aware of as these will greatly affect how she will approach you and the relationship as a whole.
Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing. Marriage is hard, period. I'm raising great kids alone I'm alone at all those same events It's been a huge personal sacrifice to support my husband all these years. I have had more than one girl, who I had definite chemsitry with, who the girl really liked me and we had deep and intense conversations as well as a real physichal connection to. So when our children bring home a potential mate that has cultural, racial, religious or other big differences then our child, our concerns immediately flare up. They therefore have a high standard to work toward. You can be very committed to someone but only be able to fit them in the limited free time you have. The gold is in the footnotes and sources linked from those new essays. Just an idea, I have no idea what would actually work for her.
Thanks so much for all the time you've put into your replies. I realize my situation is less about marriage, and more about dating, but any advice would be greatly appreciated. I am an extrovert too, I do feel lonely when my husband is not around on weekends or holidays or when I fall sick.